Convicted by steadfast love

There is little we know about the kinds of love that rule this universe. It’s very anomalous to think about the number of times we have expressed, spoken of, or analysed the phenomena of love.

And yet most of us take the whole thing in a stride. Ever wondered about the kind of love you are living?

Mainly the two categories that statute my mind are steadfast love and pliable love. Bible describes that the love of the lord is steadfast meaning it doesn't change with nature, condition, time, situation, circumstance. And the later one which I describe and have confidence in is the pliable love, the kind of love that is bent or shaped with time. Now before I let the critics pass a nagging range of comments on the fact that if love exists it should be steadfast, firm or should cease to exist at all I would like to ask them that is  the whole point of loving so uncompromising ?

There is got to be  that kind of love that one can let go of,  the one can get accustomed to but still in need or the one that one can forget because of the pain that is endured courtesy adoration of that one thing/person.

Sometimes it is not about how much or how firmly you can love a person. Sometimes it is not about the foolish blindness that is complimentary. Sometimes just sometimes it is about the approach you follow for your love, the way your love can turn around the mountain to find the right way and is not just hell bent on moving it. Loving someone right carries the message of my pliable love. It doesn't lessens the degree of the love, affection, adoration, care and all other feelings. It is sensible but not heartless, it is practical but not oblivious, it is diverse but it is all I believe in.

But many of us and most of us today are addicted to the steadfast type of love. Convicted of being in a steadfast relationship with our feelings about our self, about the ones we love and the ones we don’t. But to them I would like to say never make your love follow a path, a road not taken. It sounds super manly and mighty brave to do all in your strength to make your love steadfast, so firm that lord himself gets down to praise on the new parameters you have set and raised. But he never meant for you to do this. Humans evolve with time, everything does so what in the world makes us think that love shouldn't??

It should change. 

 Words simply put, don’t restrict the flow or the decree of your love, don’t just follow a blind path don’t be so rudimentary about it.if you passed on a judgement be cool, if you feel it descending ,be calm and ask why but don’t try to overwhelm yourself with the pressure of bringing it back to that level. If that one love is leaving your life know this and know this for good that no matter how hard you try to hold onto it, it just won’t stay. It wasn't meant to.

 So the next time you find someone convicted of steadfast love just tell them that my friend the love you are loving is in fact valid only for the lord and fairly put for mothers all over the world.